In Giving, We Receive
Through this ministry, St. Vincent de Paul provides gift baskets to hundreds of families, who might have no other gifts at Christmas. Families that sign up to receive a Christmas basket receive food as well as toys for children 12 and under. Families who are adopted will have the gifts and food delivered to their homes. Those families not adopted will pick up their baskets and "shop" for the Children's toys during our Christmas Toy Shop which will be scheduled in December.


The 2017 Christmas Program has been completed.

If you are interested in adopting a family for Christmas, Check back here in the Fall of 2018.

​For questions regarding adopting a family, see the FAQs below. 
You may make a financial contribution to offset costs of the Christmas Program at any time.  Click the link below.

​Answers to FAQs

​1. What kinds of gifts are suggested? 
​Those adopting a family receive a “wish list” from the family.  We suggest one “large” gift (a $25 value) and one “smaller” gift (a $15 value) for each child.  However, you may decide differently based on the wish list. For example, a child REALLY wants a scooter and its value is $40 alone. You may choose to purchase only the one gift, or give that and then a “token” smaller gift.

2. Since we only “guarantee” gifts for those up to age 12, what if there are children in the family over the age of 12?
​What you do for children over 12 is solely up to you.  Make a decision based on what you feel you are able to do for the family.  Some adopters provide small gifts for older children in the home and some consider a higher age at which they will limit gift giving. These are personal choices.  We do not want to limit the generosity of those who are able and willing to do more, but we also do not want adopting families to feel an obligation to do more than what the Toys for Tots program guidelines require.
3. Do I need to buy gifts for adults in the home?
Some adopters choose to give small gifts to adults in the family they adopt.  Some adopters give personal care items (laundry soap, cleaning supplies, etc. - things that are not covered by food stamps).  Other suggested items are a box of fruit, a box of candy, sweatshirt, family blanket, etc. However, there is no obligation to do so.
4. Do I need to provide Christmas Dinner?
​Yes you do, either the food or a gift card.  You will decide which after a discussion with the family.

5. When and how should I contact the family I’ve adopted?
We suggest that you contact the family you have adopted as soon as possible. You should speak with them at least three times during the Pre-Christmas season. The first contact should be immediately after being matched with the family. This is important because they are notified of the adoption and are eager hear from you. Introduce yourself and discuss the wish list to clarify the gifts requested. A second contact should be made 1 - 3 weeks later.  This is to discuss Christmas Dinner and to arrange a drop off date for their gifts. The final contact should be made 2 – 3 days prior to the delivery date to confirm with the family that they will be home and able to accept the delivery. These are guidelines for timing. 

6. What if I am unable to reach them?
If you are unable to make contact with the family after several attempts to do so, you will need to contact St. Vincent de Paul, 234-6000 ext. 12110.  We will do some research to find alternate means of reaching the family.

7. What should I provide for Christmas Dinner?
You and the family will decide if you will be shopping for food items or if you will give them a gift card to let them grocery shop.  If you are to do the shopping, ask the adopted family if there are special dietary needs. If there are none, suggested basics are: turkey or ham, potatoes, stuffing, green beans, etc. Some families have other things they consider “tradition”, so please ask them so you can find what they like and do not like. The suggested amount to spend on dinner is approximately $25-30. Some adopters like to provide food for Christmas morning as well. Again, this is totally up to the adopter.   

8. When should the toys, gifts and food be delivered to the family I have adopted?
We suggest that you discuss that with the family.  However, we do suggest delivering the items to the adopted family by December 12. This is simply to allow more time to resolve any problems that may arise. 

9. Is it okay to give gift cards to the family?
We do not recommend the use of gift cards for children’s gifts. Gift cards could be used for teens, adults and the Christmas Dinner. We do suggest that you attach gift receipts to the gift items you purchase in case an exchange needs to be made.

10. Do I wrap the gifts I purchase?
Please discuss this with the parent or guardian of your family. If they prefer to have them unwrapped, you could offer to provide the gift wrap for them.

11. What about "extras" for the family?
Providing a blanket or "stocking stuffers" would be a nice gesture, but purely optional.  Some adopters enjoy spending time with the family when they deliver the gifts.  If you would enjoy that, and wish to make dropping off the gifts something more personal, simply ask the family if they are open to that.  Some families might be uncomfortable with spending a longer time with the adopters.​

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